About Us

In November 2017, at the age of 32, I was in the bath when I found a lump in my right breast. I waited 2 days to see if it had anything to do with hormones and if the lump would change or go away. When it was still the same 2 days later, I knew it was time to see the Doctor.

One week on and we were back in the Doctors office for the results, i already knew deep down what those results were going to be but even so hearing the Doctor say '' I'm so sorry but you have breast cancer'' still came as a shock, my first thought was 'but what about Sean and the kids' I was then told I had a stage 1 tumour 1.8cm in size and grade 3 which is the fastest growing cancer and would need either aggressive chemotherapy followed by a lumpectomy which is surgery to remove the lump or surgery and then less aggressive chemotherapy followed by radiotherapy and 5 years of hormone tablets as my cancer was boarding being hormone receptor-positive. We then went on to meet the lovely Gillian who was to be my breast care nurse, at this point my mind had gone blank and I couldn't take in anything she spoke to us about, thank god Sean was with me asking all the right questions. 

I found my lump very early and because i went straight to the Doctor it made the whole process of treating it so much easier. 

We waited until 2 days after Christmas to tell the kids, that was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do in my life, they were amazing about it and have continued to be, i cant imagine how it must of felt at the ages of 11,13 and 14 to be told your mum has breast cancer but they have made me so proud. 

Everything was put into action very quickly, I had my lumpectomy in January and started the 1st of my 4 chemotherapy sessions in February.  I have now had 3 chemo's and have my last one on 25th April followed by 4 weeks of radiotherapy everyday Mon - Fri. I have lost my hair but lucky it has now grown back almost to pre cancer length, cant say the  about my eyebrows though I was left with a few stands of hair and that's it but its all good as i found a wonderful beautician who does the most amazing micro blading, she was actually recommended to me by another cancer warrior, and it was one of the best decisions I ever made to have it done. You can't even tell my brows are not real hair. I have had some really tough days health-wise after chemo, but I am so so lucky to have caught it early, it hadn't spread, treatment began quickly, and it was all removed or destroyed through surgery and treatment all within the space of 8 months. I now take a tablet called tamoxifen every day which is a form of cancer hormone treatment and will be taking that until 2028.

I still have many health problems due to the severe side effects of treatment, I am in pain every single day and rely on lots of pain meds to get me through each day. I am currently having scans to see if we can find what's causing this pain, for many of us cancer really doesn't end when you get the all-clear, it hangs around making its mark on your body and mind for years to come. Another effect of treatment is I have severe anxiety and PTSD, I have found the mental side effects are just as bad as the physical and after speaking to many other warriors this is something a lot of us warriors deal with but don't receive half as much support with and that needs to change.  This is something I would like to work on in the future by creating my own charity.